What's Your Fetish?
Bondage, Boots, Hypnosis, Leather, Skinheads, Tattoos
About Me
Long-term orientated, but I appreciate that you can't exactly go out actively seeking a relationship; but if it happens, it happens. Up for fun and frolics in the meantime.
Starting to come to the conclusion that I'm not as kinky as I thought I was in the past, although that may be more to do with the guys I've dated than the toning down of my sexual proclivities. I guess it's fair to say that I'm open-minded about things, let's leave it at that. Could always do with being taken under a Dom, daddy's or Master's wing, taught and trained.
Possibly looking for more of the Daddy thing than a Master - someone who will train and develop me, but isn't afraid to haul my arse into line if he thinks it's required but will do the snogging (lots thereof please) and romantic side of a relationship - it can't all be 24/7 sub/Dom. As for the 70% passive bit, it means I can do the fucking from time to time, but I'm not going to complain if it's always me on the bottom. You should be aware that I'm a crap top though... probably a lack of experience.
Saying that, I've got a bit of a thing for leather, boots, collars, chains, more leather, hoods, a bit more leather...
Currently on a bit of a health kick and have lost over 10kgs from the (frankly) lardy 100kg me of a couple of years ago and feeling all the better for it. Got a little bit further to go, but I'm working on it. I'm not averse to taking the t-shirt off in XXL or a Sunday afternoon in the RVT if the mood takes me these days either, now that my moobs don't bounce more than Jordan's.
I'm educated, intelligent, insightful, self-sufficient and relatively independent. Which can be a bit at odds with wanting someone to take control of things when it comes to sex, but that's the way my brain works.
I tend to go for guys a bit bigger than me in all directions: taller, more muscly or more chunky; a bit older and ones that look good in leathers, plus have the strength to stick their gloved hand on the back of my neck and pull me in for a rough long snog.
Oh, and I know it's a bit of a bugger in the gay world, but smoking really doesn't do it for me. I can't stand the smell or the taste. Sorry if that means we won't hook up. Saying that, there's something about the look of a hot top in leather with a cigar that turns me on.
And it should go without saying these days, but no pic, no talky. I know there are job pressures, wives, boyfriends, little green Martians.... but if there's no pics in your private gallery or attached to your message, then it isn't going to happen. Shallow as it may seem, I do think attractiveness (to me) is important
Definite no-nos are currently fisting, shit, vomit, blood, animals (other than bears), kids, women...
