When you are in chat, you have 2 options for private messaging; Whispers and Private Chats. In this article, we are going to focus on private chats. To start a private chat with another member, you must be a Premium Member on Fetishmen. If you are not a free member, please purchase a membership by going to https://www.fetishmen.net/payment/settings and purchase one of our memberships. Once you have a Premium Membership, follow the steps below: 1. Enter chat and select the room you w...